The Dress Code
We crown, we don’t tear down.
Everyone Is Welcome
Fashionistas, drag artists, grandpas in their Sunday best, first-time marathoners. If you feel fabulous, you belong here.
Notes Are About the Moment, Never the Person
Talk about the outfit, the color, the win. Never someone’s body, face, weight, age, race, gender, sexuality or disability.
- “That shoulder line is everything. Where did you find the coat?”
- “Four thousand sequins by hand? I’m in awe.”
- “The red against the pink works so well together.”
- “You look so happy in this. Congratulations on the finish.”
- Anything about a body, face, weight, age or skin.
- Guessing someone’s gender, sexuality or history.
- “Not for me” on a moment that didn’t ask for a read.
- Jokes at someone’s expense, even friendly ones.
Pass the Sash
Every week you get one Sash to give someone on their first three moments. It’s how we say welcome. Give it to a newcomer who made you smile.
Only Give a Read When Someone Asks
If a post is open to notes, keep them kind and specific. If it’s crowns only, just crown it.
Post Your Own Moments
Only post photos you took or have permission to share. No photos of other people without their OK, and nothing of minors.
Zero Tolerance
Hate, harassment, nudity, spam and scams get removed, and accounts get banned. Use Report and Block freely. We read every report.
Print the Dress Code as pocket cards to hand out at shows and parties.
The Front Desk Is OpenSomething not right? Report it on the moment, or write to [email protected]. A real person replies within two days.